"Some people come into your life just to teach you how to let go."

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never knows who these people may be but when you lock eyes with them, you know at that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.

And sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful, and unfair at first, but in reflection, you find that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realised your strength, willpower or heart. Everything happens for a reason, maybe sometimes you'd like to know what those reasons are but I guess it just doesn't work that way. And maybe sometimes things happen by chance or by means of luck but mostly for a reason. Even the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact, they are probably the most poignant and important ones.

If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart; forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious when you open your heart. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they loves you, but because in a way, they are teaching you to love and who to open your heart and eyes to things.

Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from those moments everything that you possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people that you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Let yourself fall in love, break free, and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right to.Tell yourself you are a great person and believe in yourself. If you don't believe in yourself; it will be hard for other to believe in you.

You can make your life anything you wish. Create your own life then go out and live it with absolutely no regrets.

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