Happy. Above all things.
Thursday, May 18, 2017
I've seen a lot of negativity on my social media timeline lately and I just want to share a little sunshine, even if it's the tiniest ray.
go out there, love. dance terribly and sing loudly. your heart’s strong as ever, no matter the storms that have tried to ruin you for good. i promise. forget about the yesterdays that followed you here. today, you can forgive even that which has interrupted your sleep. today, all the countries you have lost are replaced in full. today you can rest your head anywhere and remember the women before you who did not die, even when the whole world willed it. listen, love. go on and feel everything if that’s what it takes. so what if the world doesn’t love you back? what does it know anyway. go and save yourself in the thousand ways you feared were impossible. the war’s not over but for people like us, it never is. breathe deeply, love. keep waking up, even if the days you step into do not belong to you. go on, love. go and tell the river it owns nothing of yours today. tell the sky you forgive its impatience. tell the mountains you’ve survived worse. go on, love. count the ways you have chosen to not erase yourself. forget the ones who made your name a small thing. stay impossibly still or move through the whole country in a week. do what it takes, love. no one out there will make this easier for you. go on and dare to save yourself in a world that has promised to celebrate your absence. go on, love, and hold on to the thousands of ways you have not left a world that has only ever showed you the way out.
Saturday, April 29, 2017
Here's a very common scenario, you meet a guy/girl and the conversation was good, last time you guys hung out, it was even better. But oddly, there's just no contact from them in a week. And i know generally we tend to overthink about everything but the thing is they said they wanted a relationship and even asked about you guys living together in the future.
The million dollar question is always, why?
I've had a couple instances where people came up to me with this scene and asked me for my personal opinion and if I had to be honest, sounds like they aren't interested; I mean they're SOMEWHAT interested but not interested enough, makes sense? Even I myself have spoken to people like that before. didn’t reply me on time, (or at all), and honestly they can try to justify it any type of way they want but at the end of the day they’re just not that into you.
So best advice I get give you is to do yourself a favor now and leave. don’t wait around for people. i’m telling you this as someone who has encountered this stuff first hand. learn from my mistakes, if you will.
Maybe sometimes things just end without an explanation and for that, you need to accept it and move on.
Friday, April 21, 2017
Monday, April 10, 2017
Thursday, April 6, 2017
Happy. Happy. Happy. Happy. Happy.
Albeit a little terrified but more happy than terrified. Honestly though, everything feels so unreal, maybe because a big part of it are all firsts? Maybe, or maybe it's cause for once in this damned life, there's someone willing to put in just as much, if not, even more, into this whole thing. Maybe.
But one thing's for sure, I'm happy. Sincerely sincerely happy.
On another note: Yeah, they should’ve treated you better. They should’ve cared more. But they didn’t and they don’t, and your life keeps moving forward.
Friday, March 31, 2017
Saturday, March 25, 2017
Wednesday, March 22, 2017
- some days you do big things and conquer the universe and other days you’re really proud of yourself for making a spectacular grilled cheese and not killing yourself but either way it’s all good
- Overlooking the bad in someone and how they treat you terribly just because you love them is very bad for you and your well being, stop
- More love
- Tell people how important they are to you, always
- C'est comme ça
- Just cause someone chooses another person over you doesn't make your worth any lower
- Think of three things you're grateful for at the end of the night before you go to sleep
- Be kind
- Always always always keep your head up, baby
Friday, March 17, 2017
Because what if you regret it right? what if you turn out not liking the decision you make and it was a mistake?
The first step is always the hardest to take because it is our human nature to stay in our bubble, to fall into a pattern of familiarity, to stay "safe".
But growth never comes about from staying put, you and I both know that.